I’ve sat down with the desire to articulate a thought, and
as often happens with me, I’m sitting here going, “how do I explain this?” It’s
very vague to say Everybody has a thing, and yet I’m pretty sure there isn’t a
word for what I’m place-holding with “thing”.
So first of all, I am aware this post is even more Natalie
than usual, but if you enjoy my craziness, keep reading.
Most people when interacting with strangers, say as few words as possible, make as little eye contact as possible, and move along as quick as possible. Humans are so easily uncomfortable in most situations. When you come across someone who isn’t uncomfortable, it’s obvious, and even refreshing. What I’ve noticed about the people who are comfortable is that they clearly are also comfortable with themselves. If the individual is uncomfortable in general, all situations will also be.
I see this all the time and I love to “get involved”. It is one of my favorite things to look somebody in the face and totally ignore their discomfort. I talk to them as though they are completely comfortable, and I do that by knowing they have a “thing”.
Most people when interacting with strangers, say as few words as possible, make as little eye contact as possible, and move along as quick as possible. Humans are so easily uncomfortable in most situations. When you come across someone who isn’t uncomfortable, it’s obvious, and even refreshing. What I’ve noticed about the people who are comfortable is that they clearly are also comfortable with themselves. If the individual is uncomfortable in general, all situations will also be.
I see this all the time and I love to “get involved”. It is one of my favorite things to look somebody in the face and totally ignore their discomfort. I talk to them as though they are completely comfortable, and I do that by knowing they have a “thing”.

Coming into contact with so many people for my job means
that some people get used to me seeing their “thing” and they get excited
because what they don’t know is I am showing them my “thing”. Being able to see
someone’s “thing” changes things. It changes discomfort.
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